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Pairstead

Two people, one home, a little easier every day.

Pairstead is a shared place for the two of you — to say the hard things kindly, to keep the little things from slipping, and to see where your money goes, together.

  • Today
  • Us
  • Home
  • Money

Free, and it takes about a minute.

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Made for two people who want this to be easier

Every couple ends up running a small company — the chores, the calendar, the bills — and somewhere in the middle, still trying to be close. Pairstead looks after both halves.

For the two of youKind ways to talk after an argument, a Sunday check-in, and small ways to say you are thinking of them.
For the everydayChores, shopping and the calendar in one place, so nobody has to be the one who remembers.
For the moneyWhat comes in, what goes out, and what you are saving for, shared and fair.

Some things stay sealed until you have both written

After an argument, or at the Sunday sit-down, each of you writes your side on your own. Neither of you can read the other’s until you have both written.

Drawn for this page — no real writing is shown.

Around that: a pause button for when things heat up, a gentle way to start a hard conversation, a thank-you in one tap, and a place to keep your story — photos, dates and letters.

Only those two are sealed. The rest of what you put in Pairstead is shared with your partner, and the privacy page says so plainly.

Chores, counted two ways

Most apps count who did the chore. Pairstead also counts who had to remember it, because carrying the list in your head is a job too, and nobody sees it.

Drawn for this page — not anybody’s real week.

And the rest of the house lives beside it: a shopping list you both add to, a shared calendar, and everyone else you look after.

Money, without the awkward conversation

See what comes in and what goes out, month by month, and save towards something together.

Drawn for this page — not anybody’s real money.

Split bills the fair way — evenly, or by what each of you earns — and settle up without keeping score. Photograph a receipt and Pairstead can read it for you.

It is one of the things couples argue about most, so it is where Pairstead tries to be calmest.

It is free

There is nothing to buy and no card to put in.

It goes on your phone

Get Pairstead on your phone Android and iPhone. Its own icon, no address bar, and it opens with no signal. Get the app

What to know before you start

Some things do leave the app. An AI suggestion sends what it needs to Google, and a password-reset email goes through Brevo. The privacy page says exactly what, in plain words.

Start with the two of you.

Make your account, then invite your partner with a code.

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Pairstead
Get Pairstead on your phone Android and iPhone. Its own icon, no address bar, and it opens with no signal. Get the app

Understand each other. Build something beautiful.

Pairstead is one place for the two of you — the day you are both in, the things you have agreed, the house you run together and the money you share. You each get your own account, and you see the same home.

  • TodayHow you are each feeling, what is on, and one small thing to try together.
  • UsYour profiles, what you have agreed between you, the Sunday sit-down, and Repair for after an argument.
  • HomeChores counted two ways — who did them, and who had to remember them. Plus the shopping, the calendar, and everyone you look after.
  • MoneyWhat comes in, what goes out, and what the two of you are saving towards.

Two colours run through the whole app, one for each of you, so it is always clear who did what. What you write in Repair and in the Sunday sit-down stays sealed until you have both written.

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